
Originally Posted by
beasley
Hey guys thanks for reading my posts and for the kind words, I really appreciate it. Let me tell about my guitar day then I'll respond to Monkfish's questions.
I did my daily routine that I've discussed in the previous posts and then off to teach my Friday students. I've actually labeled everyday I teach by the type of people that come in for that particular day. Friday is "engineer Friday" because I have a ton of those guys on that day. I've asked a few of then why they seem to migrate to Friday and the typical reason is that's the only day they can leave the office because the other days are so busy. I wind up doing everything from theory to soloing to Pop tunes. They seem to like Journey a lot (so do I) and some of them like really hokey 70's tunes like Gypsies, Tramps, and Thieves by Cher or Wildfire by Michael Murphy, etc...I pretend I like it too but it's really super corny...ha! Sometimes I hope no one can hear us doing the tunes but all-in-all I don't mind so much. Oh yeah I forgot about "If you like pina coladas, and gettin' caught in the rain", I forgot about that one. Maybe that's not a bad thing.
Monkfish I have experienced this many times in my career. If it's an adult I do what makes them happy. I try to push them to learn music, reading, scales and arpeggios, metronome work, etc...but after a while if they really don't want that and are happy just jamming, then I let it go at that and try to slip in some music training here and there. I have some adult students who've been with me a while that just want to do that, but I also help them gain depth in thier soloing ability by teaching them to follow form early on. Once they get a handle on that, I've got them, and I can at least train their ear to hear lots of different chord changes and teach them how to solo over them. Sometimes it's just Pop tunes they want to do but I can almost always tie that into western music theory and make reference to the fact that even their favorite players are utilizing those ideas.
Now, if it's a young person my rule is this: whoever writes the check is the boss! If their parents want them to read, then that's what we're gonna do. If after a while they still bit#h and moan about it, I'll tell the parents they really don't want to do that and are they sure they want me to continue to push it. If they say yes then that's what I'll do. Usually after a few times of going to them and saying "he doesn't want this and I think it's discouraging him" they acquiesce. Bottom line, in reality the student is the boss and your trying to make a living. Sometimes you have to do things that seem almost counter-productive but unfortunately sometimes, you can't do anything about it. If that's the case, I try to find some way to put as much stuff mixed in with what the student wants to make at least a little bit of a positive impact. I can usually pull that off but there have been times when I just teach them the tunes they want or jam with them the way they want. I used to feel bad too, but then I realized if they don't want to learn the things that are important to a musician then that's their deal, not mine. I can agree to disagree, in an agreeable manner. I hope that helps.
See you guys tomorrow.
Jeff
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